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Thoughtful Aging: Reclaiming Your Narrative of Beauty

February 17, 20252 min read

“The honor in aging comes from valuing wisdom over superficiality.” - Alina Wilson

Thoughtful Aging: Reclaiming Your Narrative of Beauty

As women, we're constantly bombarded with messages about aging, often painting it as something to fear and fight. But what if we could shift our perspective and embrace aging as a natural process filled with wisdom, grace, and self-acceptance? In this episode of the Rise 2 Shine Podcast, I chat with Alina Wilson, a medical aesthetics expert and author of "Thoughtful Aging," about how to do just that.

Seeing Yourself, Not Just Looking

Alina shares a powerful distinction between looking at yourself and seeing yourself. When we look, we often stand in a place of judgment, focusing on perceived flaws and imperfections. But when we see ourselves, we approach our reflection with acceptance and compassion. This shift in perspective is crucial for cultivating self-love and embracing the aging process. This self-acceptance is key to a positive aging journey.

From Deficit to Growth

Many women approach aging from a place of deficit, feeling like they're losing something – youth, beauty, relevance. But Alina encourages us to adopt a growth mindset, viewing aging as an opportunity for self-discovery and personal evolution. By getting curious about our thoughts and feelings, we can challenge negative self-talk and rewrite our narratives around beauty. This growth mindset allows us to see the beauty in every stage of life.

The Wisdom of Aging

In a culture obsessed with youth, it's easy to forget the value of wisdom. Alina reminds us that aging brings not only physical changes but also invaluable life experience, resilience, and inner strength. By honoring the wisdom that comes with age, we can redefine beauty on our own terms and find joy in every stage of life. This inner strength empowers us to embrace graceful aging.

Embracing Your Choice

Ultimately, how we choose to age is up to us. We can fight it, deny it, or embrace it. Alina encourages us to be proactive and responsible, making informed choices about our health and well-being. Whether it's exploring bioidentical hormone replacement or simply practicing self-compassion, we have the power to shape our aging journey. Thoughtful aging involves making conscious choices about our health and well-being.

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XOXO, 

Noelle Kustas 

Rise2Shine Co


Noelle Kustas is a devoted wife and "next chapter" mama to a 22-year-old daughter and a 15-year-old son. With a deep-rooted passion for empowering women, she's dedicated to helping others unlock their full potential. A seasoned educator and the driving force behind Rise2ShineCo, Noelle is a sought-after transformational coach and speaker. Known as "The Spark Igniter," she guides women through life's transitions, inspiring them to embrace their purpose and create extraordinary lives.

As a podcast host, community builder, and Chapter Director for Coachella Valley Business and Bubbly, Noelle is committed to fostering connections and uplifting women. Her journey is marked by a philanthropic spirit and a belief in the power of collective strength. Through retreats, events, a signature program, and one-on-one coaching, she creates transformative experiences that ignite confidence and propel women forward.

Noelle Kustas

Noelle Kustas is a devoted wife and "next chapter" mama to a 22-year-old daughter and a 15-year-old son. With a deep-rooted passion for empowering women, she's dedicated to helping others unlock their full potential. A seasoned educator and the driving force behind Rise2ShineCo, Noelle is a sought-after transformational coach and speaker. Known as "The Spark Igniter," she guides women through life's transitions, inspiring them to embrace their purpose and create extraordinary lives. As a podcast host, community builder, and Chapter Director for Coachella Valley Business and Bubbly, Noelle is committed to fostering connections and uplifting women. Her journey is marked by a philanthropic spirit and a belief in the power of collective strength. Through retreats, events, a signature program, and one-on-one coaching, she creates transformative experiences that ignite confidence and propel women forward.

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